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Friday, December 22, 2006
Vatican cardinal: Chastity is best weapon against AIDS
Vatican cardinal: Chastity is best weapon against AIDS

Fidelity in marriage and premarital abstinence from sex are the key weapons in the fight against AIDS, a senior Vatican cardinal, who prepared a study on condom use, said Wednesday. Cardinal Javier Lozano Barragan, who heads the Vatican office for health care, told the Associated Press that it was not yet known whether the Vatican would issue a document about the use of condoms after examining the study his office had prepared at the request of Pope Benedict XVI.

But, on the sidelines of a conference on AIDS sponsored by the U.S. Embassy to the Holy See, he said the request for the study ''shows the desire of the pope'' to battle AIDS and demonstrates that ''he is not indifferent to this difficult problem.'' The Vatican study on condoms deals only with married couples in which one partner has HIV.

In remarks to the conference, Barragan reiterated church teaching on how to prevent the spread of HIV, saying individuals must ''have the courage to proclaim clearly chastity'' in a society in which sex is part of the pursuit of pleasure.

The study on condoms was prepared with the help of scientists, theologians, and other experts exploring scientific, moral, and technical points of view. The Roman Catholic Church opposes the use of condoms as part of its overall teaching against contraception. It advocates sexual abstinence and sexual faithfulness between husband and wife as the best ways to combat the spread of HIV.

But several leading churchmen have spoken out on the issue in recent years as the Vatican has come under increasing criticism. Some, such as retired Milan cardinal Carlo Maria Martini, say condoms were the ''lesser evil'' in combating the spread of AIDS. Barragan, of Mexico, has said condoms could sometimes be condoned, such as when a woman cannot refuse her HIV-positive husband's sexual advances.

Other cardinals, however, have rejected the idea that condoms could be used, including Cardinal Alfonso Lopez Trujillo, who has contended that condoms may help spread AIDS through a false sense of security.

Karen Stanecki, a senior adviser to the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS, told the conference that AIDS is on the rise among married women, including in Ghana, where married women were three times as likely as nonmarried women to be infected. ''There is a concern that the messages need to be changing,'' said Stanecki, referring to the long-standing warnings targeting higher-risk populations like sexually active gay men and intravenous-drug users.

She said U.N. officials were ''very pleased that Pope Benedict has been speaking more about AIDS in his speeches.'' (AP)

http://www.advocate.com/news_detail_ektid40566.asp
 
Venite adoremus,
Dominum!
 
 
Thursday, December 21, 2006
For The Less Than Happy At Christmas
For The Less Than Happy At Christmas

Not everybody has a happy Christmas. For some people Christmas is, for one reason or another is a time for a few tears, either because of their memories or because of the situations in which they find themselves as the day draws closer. Perhaps someone they love is  sick, or it's an anniversary of a sad time... Maybe times are tough for them financially, or they are lonely. There are many reasons why the season that should be full of joy is actually tinged with some sadness. I work in the psych field. I come into contact with many people for whom this time of year is a time of distress, rather than a time of joy. In the dark of the night often all I can do is murmur into the phone, "I know, I know, ..... I'm so sorry..... I'm so sorry..... Hang on..... It gets better."  Often it feels like it never will. But I try to remind them that "never" is a very long time, and all we have to do is get through the next little while, and then the next little while, and keep doing that. Don't look at the long haul. Just the next little while.
 
There are no easy answers, especially when you start to feel really low, and you look around you and you feel like everyone else is feeling happy or has it better. And then you start feeling bad because you feel like you're being covetous or envious, so now you feel bad and you feel guilty! And if someone comes to you for comfort, it's often difficult to know what to say. You may have your own stressors, your own pain. And it's often difficult to understand completely where the other person is coming from, because each of us is unique, no two circumstances are the same.

For those whose Christmas will not be the happiest time in their lives, I'd like to offer something that I personally find helpful and comforting in the hopes that it you might also see it as valuable.
 
Teresa of Avila wrote that she felt that she didn't have much of an imagination, so she personally found reading holy books and looking at holy pictures to be quite helpful. She particularly liked to meditate on pictures of Our Lord right before she went to bed, and she would imagine that she was with Him, standing right beside him, not necessarily talking to him, but like Mary of Bethany, sitting at His feet, drinking in His holy presence, listening to all He had to say. She said she would make the Sign of the Cross every night, and then would put herself into these holy pictures, and meditate on them, until she fell asleep, peacefully. She would even imagine that she was present with him in the Garden of Gethsemane, during His most terrible suffering, and then all her troubles and cares would drop away, and seem so small, next to His carrying all the sins of the world. And she would long to comfort Him, if even for  just a moment. Her heart would break for Him. Yet, even if she were meditating on something as sad as the Agony in the Garden, she would find peace in her heart, standing there by the side of Christ, just offering Him comfort by her presence, when He was suffering and alone. Other times she would meditate on other instances in the Life of Christ, of course. You could choose. Advent is a perfect time to begin this type of meditation. 
 
Sometimes I like to look at a picture of Our Lady of Perpetual Help that I have on the wall of my bedroom. Our Lord clutches His Blessed Mother and she holds him close, comforting him, as two angels show him the tools of the future crucifixion. He is comforted by her love, her protecting arm, and her the strength that only a mother can give a child. She sings him a sweet lullaby, there is no need to worry, her sweet little one, "go to sleep, my love" she whispers. And I can imagine that she whispers the same thing to me.

If Christmas is not going to be the happiest time in your life, then perhaps putting yourself "in the picture" might help. Try it, see what happens. Who knows what graces you might receive?
Some Polish lawmakers want Jesus as King of Poland

This is both serious and silly. In this day and age, all the pundits are going to laugh, you know this. But in the 17th century, A very devout Poland consecrated their land to the Virgin Mother and made her their honorary queen. So how is this different? So I also see this as very sweet and devout. I very much hope that this does come to pass. The United States is also consecrated to the Virgin Mary. Many don't even realize this, but we are under her mantle of protection. She is also our Queen.

Some Polish lawmakers want Jesus as King of Poland

December 20, 2006, 13:15

Some Polish lawmakers want to make Jesus the honorary king of their overwhelmingly Catholic country, Rzeczpospolita daily newspaper reported today. The idea has gained popularity since being mooted by a member of the ruling Law and Justice party last spring before a visit by Pope Benedict.

Artur Gorski, a member of the ruling Law and Justice party said some of his colleagues "were praying in the parliamentary chapel for (Jesus') coronation." So far, 46 deputies in the 460-seat sejm, or lower house, back the idea, Rzeczpospolita said. And more would support the move if Poland's clergy gave their blessing.

If the motion becomes law, Jesus would join a Virgin Mary icon that was made honorary queen of Poland in the 17th century after she was believed to have helped turn the tide in a battle with Sweden. - Reuters